I was supposed to go to maternal clinic to see my OB/GYN for the last time, six weeks after giving birth. So I woke up early morning to check my emails, and I got an email from my internet Dad's wife telling that he passed out June 4. It was really sad to know. I had wished him to come to see us and give my boys a big hug, but it never happened. He was a funny, happy man. May he rest in peace 
After having brealfast, I packed to leave Michael and the boys, walking to train station and go to Boston by train. It was sad leaving my boys and go by train because I used to go by train to Boston when I was pregnant and the boys were kicking inside of me being excited and now I had to go alone, leaving my babies behind. It was really sad even if it was just for a few hours.
In the maternal clinic, I felt like a ghost. I didn't have a big belly any more and I had got a hair cut, so nobody knew me any more. I was looking at women being pregnant and I knew some of them, but nobody knew me any more, nobody wanted to talk with me ....
It was sad seeing my doctor for the last time. She is a wonderful woman, much more than a doctor to me. She helped me go through one of the most important stages of my life so well and have two healthy beautiful boys and then I had to leave her ... She gave me a hug and I was trying hard to not cry. I didn't want her think that I was crying because of hormuns.
I went walking with my boys in the afternoon, trying to enjoy some time in the sad day. We did have pretty good time together.... Coming back we were all tired. The boys went to sleep ( not very easily ) and then I lied down on bed , thinking about my sad day until Michael came and I talked with him. He helped me feel bettter as he always does. He is my best , that's why I love him so much.
I am sorry to hear about your internet Dad passing. You had told me about him some time ago and I know he meant a lot to you. As for your doctor, imagine how she must have grown close to you, especially since you were such a special patient, and now she has to say good-bye to you, too. And she has to do this with all of her patients, until they get pregnant again. But she would not be so close to the others as she was to you.
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You know what your beautiful with new haircut, and we all change after babies. It is hard when we change friends due to circumstances. But those who truly love u will always be there no matter what you look like or no matter what state pregnant or not that your in. Sorry to hear about your daddy , it is the hardest thing to say goodbye , but always try to remember the good times that you had with him. It is like a jewel a gem once you have it and know it you never forget it , it is always precious as i know he will always be to you. Thinking of you and praying for you in these hard days.
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